The virtual world can be a lonely world. No meeting by the water cooler to discuss our personal lives or office affairs, no good lunches each day, no best friend to confide in during breaks, no cracking jokes among colleagues. Instead, we interact with our dogs or cats, aka “our 4-legged co-workers”, which can be a real big minus as they erupt into song at the squirrel on the porch when you are talking to your brand new client……
Virtual employees, most of us anyway, (the good ones my boss says) put in more hours per day compared to office workers. That’s because, when ‘real’ office employees leave the workplace, the paperwork and other tasks stay back in the office – it’s a physical separation. At home the computer taunts you – screen saver blinking, blinking at you. The email is waiting – pinging at you – pulling at you. The virtual office phone is ringing, calling your name. It’s difficult to say “no more for today” and really mean it. There is always one more thing that needs to be done, or you give in to that email ping or you just have to check the caller ID to see who is calling. I laugh at myself when I sit down to send one final email for the night and an hour later, I am still here working.
A huge annoyance about working virtually is the LACK OF RESPECT. I don’t understand it – can’t get my head around it – but my friends and neighbors think that since I work from home, that I am HOME doing nothing. They just don’t seem to digest the “work” aspect of the virtual office. “This is my friend, Alissa. She “works” (wink, wink) from home – I’m sure she can take care of that little favor for you…” “Alissa, can you come over and wait for the plumber for me? I have to take little Johnny to the doctor, unless of course, your are (wink, wink) working…..”
Another problem is the guilt factor – and don’t ask me where that comes from. I can’t tell you. You’ve taken a short break to run to the bathroom and on the way back hear the phone ringing or the email pinging or the IM dinging – and you literally RUN (hauling PJs back up) to your desk to intercept it. I mean REALLY, gods and goddesses forbid that you have to “use the facilities” or go fix your lunch so you can EAT LUNCH AT YOUR DESK WHILE YOU WORK. Because, well gee, you never pee or eat in a REAL office… How does that feeling sneak in? I can’t for my life figure it out.
Working virtually does have its benefits. Of course, there’s the obvious: you don’t have to dress for the occasion; pajamas do work well some days. That’s a real kicker – negotiating away while tapping out a silent rhumba in your bunny slippers. Gasoline budget drops considerably and you save yourself the stress of dealing with the idiot on the cell phone, who is putting on make-up and eating a danish. Of course you lose the pleasure of expressing your feelings regarding same, with the world-wide known and appreciated 3rd digit salute. Wear and tear on your car is minimal, and if you have kids, you can be home for them. Of course, that can be a big negative as well – going back to the noise factor as they croon in with Bud the singing pooch.
Working virtually develops stupendous multi-tasking skills. Have you ever been on a conference call, stirring dinner on the stove, taking notes, and trying to get chewing gum out of your child’s hair- all at once? It can be done – I’ve been there and have the tee-shirt! (Of course, if I hadn’t given in to checking out the phone digital display – I wouldn’t have been on the freakin conference call to begin with) Which reminds me – Who loves the “MUTE button”??? Those same gods and goddesses granted the virtual office this one HUGE thing. The mute button is the conqueror of all evil – I promise…the one on my phone is practically worn out.
So, all in all, working virtually is pretty much a mixed bag – but I like it. It suits me. Do you work virtually? Would love to hear some feedback, experiences, etc. from our readers!!